THE GORGEOUS WOMAN

Hello friends

My name is Tamie (aka first lady), and I’m simply gorgeous! :D

This is my first blog post and I’m so excited to share my thoughts with you.

The purpose of this blog is to cultivate and raise gorgeous woman around the world - women that are beautiful spirit, soul and body.

We would be sharing tips on marriage, beauty and character as these are major factors in the life of a woman.

We would also be sharing on business and success as these determine your significance in your world.


I believe that every woman can be as beautiful as she decides to be, that beauty is not just how you look physically but it’s also who you choose to be. It is a trait that is not only seen but felt and perceived from the aura around you.



I also believe that beauty is not just about the color of your skin, but also the color of your heart.
It is not just about how people see you, but also how you make them feel.

So let’s talk about who a gorgeous woman is

The word "GORGEOUS' means several things among which are;

1. Dazzlingly beautiful or magnificent

2. Characterized by magnificence or virtuosic brilliance.

3. Extremely pleasing, fine, or good.

4. Gorgeous is an emphatic way of saying that something is extremely attractive.

So we can say that a gorgeous woman is a woman that is extremely attractive. 

For me I define a gorgeous woman as a woman that is extremely attractive spirit, soul and body because I believe that beauty goes beyond the surface. 

Let’s be real. You could look like Miss Universe on the outside but if you’re like the wicked witch of the west on the inside, I don’t believe you can ever be truly beautiful. Whether it’s something simple like opening the door for the next person behind you or a strong charismatic glow, inner beauty I think takes many forms. In fact, it’s something I like sharing. So here are my top 8 characteristics of a Gorgeous Woman – a woman who encapsulates a kind, powerful and strong heart. Truth be told, I believe sometimes inner beauty is all you need.

SPIRIT:

1.      A QUIET SPIRIT:

A gorgeous woman is not only attractive on the inside and outside, but she is also attractive to God. How a woman looks to God is more important than any other quality she possesses because one day, both her inner and outer beauty will cease, but the beauty that God sees in her will be important when she stands before Him. The Bible gives us some clues as to what God finds attractive in women. He values a gentle and quiet spirit in a woman (1 Peter 3:3-4). This does not mean that a woman should never say anything; it simply means that she should not have an argumentative spirit, always demanding to have her way. She should be peaceful and respectful. Being beautiful to God should be top priority on every woman’s list.

2.     SUBMISSIVENESS:

“Submissive” is not a popular word in our world today and many people see it as being weak, yet God has command married women to submit to their husband’s authority (Ephesians 5: 22-32). It is not a sign of weakness but a sign of strength. It is a sign that she is submitting herself to God and is obeying the commands that He has established. It is a sign of her faith in God. When a woman submits to her husband’s authority, she is indeed beautiful to God.

SOUL:

    3.     KIND & COMPASSIONATE:

These are probably one of the first things you think of when you think of inner beauty. Someone who takes into account how others are feeling and puts themselves in their shoes is truly kind and considerate. Whether it is giving a helping hand to someone, or being careful about how your words might make someone else feel, kindness is certainly not surrounding yourself with lots of friends, but really putting yourself in another’s shoes.

Interestingly, Kindness is the number one desirability trait in many personality assessment studies of what men find most desirable in women, as well as a major trait required in mate selection criteria. If we are kind and considerate, even though our beauty will eventually fade, and those grey hairs and wrinkles finally set in, we'll still be very much admired, loved, as well as appreciated by people around us. 

    4.     PASSIONATE:  

A beautiful woman is passionate about something, has a dream or a goal in life and will do the work to make it happen. She’s strong enough to admit that there is a challenge ahead of her but her passion is strong enough to overcome it. A beautiful woman is also ambitious, and well focused. She wants to get somewhere in life and I think that’s important because without passion in your life, you will just live to eat and eat to live (lol).

I’m writing a series of books on Passion and you can contact me to order for copies for you and your loved ones.

5.     INTELLIGENCE:

A woman isn’t only beautiful because of how she looks; she’s beautiful because she has a good head on her shoulders.  

Men are visual creatures, they say. They weigh a woman’s beauty over her intelligence. But people see beauty in various ways. An intelligent woman, however, is a total package for a man who wants more than sex. When she expresses intellect, it means she will teach him new things and provide avenue for growth. A man is more likely to fall for a woman when she shares the things she has learned through her life experiences.

Intelligence, brains and wit add substance to a woman’s beauty. This isn’t about getting Einstein’s IQ, it’s about being curious about the world and seeking knowledge to know more about your surroundings. Knowledge makes a powerful, engaging and interesting woman. Men don’t want to talk to a woman who stares blankly at them dumbly no matter how pretty she is.

6.     BE REAL:

Be real, especially when it comes to realizing that no one is perfect. I think that being yourself is better than trying to be someone you’re not or trying to be someone you think you should be. Perhaps you can’t be all of this, maybe it’s not your nature to do so. Being real and true to yourself and celebrating your individuality is better than being someone you’re not. Period.

Also saying you’re the bomb when you don’t practice what you preach is not being genuine. I think a woman should be modest but not under value herself.

7.     CONFIDENCE:

They say confidence is the most important accessory a woman can wear. True. With confidence, you glow and feel like you can take on the world. Whatever challenges that come your way, you’ll be able to make it through. In fact, I think that wearing confidence is more attractive than wearing any beauty product. A confident woman is able to light an inner glow that is contagious in a room of insecurities. Please note that confidence is different from aggressiveness. Men are attracted to women with strength of character, those who promise support when times get rough. It is reassuring for most men to meet women who know what they want and who they love. A woman with relaxed confidence is at peace with herself, vibrant, and full of optimism.

BODY:

8.     PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS:

Outwardly physical attractiveness is the characteristic most commonly associated with being beautiful. Women who possess this characteristic are pleasing to the eye and naturally attractive to members of the opposite sex. While many studies have been done on the science behind beauty, few hard and fast facts have been uncovered, as the principle of physical beauty is nearly impossible to quantify. But please find below my thoughts on physical beauty.

I think the most influential factor in a woman’s physical beauty is her health. When a woman is healthy, she has an attractive glow about her. Good health adds more color to the face and skin and helps produce more energy. A balanced diet and exercise plan will help a woman have a healthy glow. It will also help to keep excess weight off and produce a more attractive physique.

Another factor of a womanly beauty is looking feminine. A woman should look like a woman and not a man. A woman can achieve this through her dressing and hairstyle. This should be done in a modest and feminine way because modest appearance doesn’t only make a woman attractive; she also gains honor and respect from those who see her. A woman’s body is designed to be attractive and arousing to men, and when a woman is revealing too much of herself in the public – as is common in our society today- she is stirring up the wrong kind of feelings and will attract the wrong kind of attention. A gorgeous woman aims for respect in the way she dresses.

The third factor I would like to point out in a woman’s physical beauty is showing of your best asset. Knowing your best asset and showing it off to the fullest will make you look and feel gorgeous. Not all women are gifted with perfect physical features, but what a woman does with what she has is very important in making her very attractive even if she has only one outstanding feature. So whether its your eyes, your hair, your face or your figure that is your best asset, learn to accentuate it properly and show it off in an attractive and elegant way.

In closing, I would like to ask you a question, how do you define a gorgeous woman?

Looking forward to your comments.

Love always.

Tamie !